sexy is just SEXY, or is it ?

First step : Press Play !


Hey sexy, what u lookin at ?

One of the top reasons y i love Europe : almost half of the fashion ads including men are VERY homo-erotic.

Somebody told me a few years ago : " i'd never date a white man, i'd feel used. As the top, i'd feel like he was using me as a sexual object, and i'd never bottom because i'd feel dominated... you know... like a slave ! "

I must admit i was really shocked, i don't know about all the visitors, but all the people that comment on this site (with a few exceptions) are black/mixed, so i wanna know how you guys feel about interracial dating, have u ever done it ? has it ever crossed your mind ? would you do it ? does exclusively "caucasian" porn turn u on ?

would a white man make u turn around in the street to take a double look ?

I know he would make me take triple looks !


The race thing is different on the other side of the Atlantic, the minorities have just been there for a few decades, they dont have much power, there are no such things as black schools (it took me about about a year to understand the concept of black colleges in the U.S) or neighbourhoods, its just a blend : black kids/white/asian/whatever... in France, all the kids grow up together and go to the same schools so...
I wouldn't say that it's exactly the same with dating, but the proportions of interracial couples are the highest that's for sure (i personally know more than 10 asian/black gay couples), so... to me sexy is just SEXY !
I have to admit things went a lil' crazy when i moved to North America a few yeas ago because, man !!!! i wasn't used to having so many choices of other black men to chill with, so it was like a starving child at a buffet, i filled my plate, grabbed as much meat as i could and went at it till i passed out ! lol
But i'm back to my normal self now, :-)

how do you guys feel about the interracial thing ?

Bonus : Enrique Iglesias singing his famouse song hero to a male fan, and holding him in his arms (more than once), live @ G-A-Y london
Enrique @ G-A-Y
Get your tickets to Europe people, things get crazy across the pond !

Communication time :-)

These are just quick answers to comments made in various posts, i should have done it a long time ago, but... mmm.. well, i have no reason, bite me ! ( no please dont,.. lol)

So...

@ Karamale : have fun with your loved one in NYC, hadnt talked 2 u in a while bro, i missed u!

@ E : u and all ur IJSTP's, FGHI, ISPFT, JKEW, personality tests and mystic codes will always make me laugh. Steph said that for the right amount of cookies he could help you move ! lol

@ Jameil : The crazy things people do 4 luv ! i am not complaining !!!

@ Fuzzy : indeed, nothing wrong with sleeping. where am i in the city ? a downtown-ish neighbourhood with plenty of sushi options lol

@ Fuzzy's soulmate -> Shawn : Yep i travel " a little "... lol, that's one of my biggest, if not my biggest passion : discovering this world we live in, it's amazing !
Some people still walk around naked in forests in some parts of the world, its.... refreshing to see such things lol

@ WiseYoung : sorry your plans were cancelled, i was looking forward to meeting you in " our hometown", that would've been cool !

@ Lyrically Speaking : you're one of the most colourful and positive things in blogopia, just read about your illness, so happy to read that u're doing better, i'll keep you in my prayers and send you positive waves every morning to help you stay strong and happy !!!

Hey !!! by the way, thx to everybody for stopping by this blog from time to time, it's gonna be 2 years next week, it's unbelievable !